10 Books for Grown Women
Complicated women, second acts, and lives still being figured out.
There comes a point when I want something a little different from the women in my books.
I still love a good romance and I will happily read about falling in love, but I also want women who have already lived a little.
Women with marriages and divorces behind them. Women raising children while watching their own parents grow older. Women navigating changing bodies, changing friendships, careers that didn't turn out quite the way they expected, and relationships that look very different after twenty years than they did at the beginning.
Women who have made mistakes.
Women who aren't necessarily starting their lives, but are beginning to wonder what they want from the rest of them.
That's what I mean by books for grown women.
These aren't ten versions of the same midlife story. Some are funny. Some are dark. Some are about marriage or motherhood. Others are about friendship, desire, aging, grief, reinvention, or simply reaching a point where a woman realizes she is allowed to want something different.
And perhaps my favorite thing about them is that none of these women have everything figured out.
Sandwich by Catherine Newman
Sandwich follows Rocky during her family's annual Cape Cod vacation, where she finds herself caught between her growing children and aging parents. As menopause, marriage, motherhood, and long-held family secrets collide, Rocky must reckon with how much life is changing and what it means to finally let go.
Clutch by Emily Nemens
Clutch follows five women whose college friendship has lasted more than twenty years as they navigate the increasingly complicated realities of midlife. Careers, marriage, addiction, fertility, aging parents, and family upheaval test their relationships while raising the question of how women continue showing up for one another without losing themselves.
Amazing Grace Adams by Fran Littlewood
Amazing Grace Adams follows forty-five-year-old Grace, a perimenopausal mother who reaches her breaking point, abandons her car in traffic, and walks across London carrying a birthday cake for her estranged teenage daughter. Along the way, she confronts how far she feels she has fallen from the woman she once was and begins finding her way back to herself.
The Paper Palace by Miranda Cowley Heller
The Paper Palace follows fifty-year-old Elle, a married mother of three who finds herself forced to choose between the life she has built with her husband and the one she might have had with her childhood love. Moving between past and present, it explores marriage, desire, family secrets, and the complicated choices that shape a woman's life.
Mad Mabel by Sally Hepworth
Mad Mabel follows eighty-one-year-old Elsie Fitzpatrick, the longtime resident and resident busybody of Kenny Lane, who has spent decades carefully hiding her past. When a curious young neighbor befriends her, old secrets begin resurfacing, including the unsettling fact that people around Elsie have a habit of meeting unfortunate ends.
Go Gentle by Maria Semple
Go Gentle follows Adora Hazzard, a divorced mother who believes she has created exactly the life she wants: independence, her teenage daughter, meaningful work, and a close circle of female friends. But an unexpected romance and the return of a carefully buried past disrupt her orderly world, forcing Adora to reconsider desire, happiness, and what she wants from the second half of her life.
The Wedding People by Alison Espach
The Wedding People follows Phoebe Stone, who arrives alone at a grand Rhode Island inn at the lowest point in her life, only to find herself surrounded by guests attending an elaborate wedding. An unexpected friendship with the bride begins to alter both women's plans, in a story about marriage, loneliness, friendship, and the surprising ways a life can change course.
The Change by Kirsten Miller
The Change follows three women who discover unexpected powers as they enter midlife. When they uncover the body of a teenage girl whose death has been largely dismissed, they combine their abilities to seek answers, turning menopause, rage, and reinvention into sources of power rather than things to fear.
The Second Chance Trailer Park by Katie Powner
The Second Chance Trailer Park follows fifty-two-year-old Meredith, who decides she needs a change after being passed over for a promotion and ending a long relationship. She talks her way into a retirement community hoping for a quieter life, only to find a group of quirky neighbors determined to convince her that her next chapter may just be beginning.
The Most Fun We Ever Had by Claire Lombardo
The Most Fun We Ever Had by Claire Lombardo follows Marilyn and David Sorenson and their four very different adult daughters, each struggling with relationships, motherhood, loss, identity, and choices they aren't quite sure how to live with. When a long-held family secret resurfaces, old rivalries and resentments collide in a multigenerational story about the messy realities behind marriage, family, and a life built together.
The Books I Want More Of
I think that's really what I'm looking for when I say I want books for grown women.
I don't need every protagonist to be likable. I don't need her to make the right decisions. And I certainly don't need her to have figured out marriage, motherhood, friendship, work, her body, her family, or herself.
Actually, I'd rather she hadn't.
I want women who have enough life behind them to know that things rarely turn out exactly as planned, but enough life ahead of them to know the story isn't finished.
Give me the fifty-two-year-old beginning again. The eighty-one-year-old woman with secrets. The mother caught between children who need her differently and parents who suddenly need her more. The woman questioning the marriage she chose. The woman furious about menopause. The woman who thought she knew exactly what she wanted until she didn't.
Those are the women I want to read about.
Because growing older doesn't make women's stories smaller.
If anything, they get much more interesting.
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And tell me: What book about a complicated, fully grown woman would you add to this list?